Even though this post does appear to be targeted to women, I hope that the men will read it too, because we are all affected by hormones, and far too many of us, both women and men, are affected by chronic pain.
What prompted me to start reading up on this topic was that many women I know have told me that their pain (joint pain, back pain, neck pain, basically ANY pain) was worse at certain times of the month and they felt that it was hormone related. Beyond that, every one of these women, myself included, have experienced the frustration of having a doctor be dismissive of the idea that hormonal fluctuations may increase pain in all areas of the body (not just in the female organs).
What IS a hormone anyway? A hormone is a substance produced in the body that stimulates cells or tissue to act. They are powerful. Off the top of your head, can you guess how many hormones there are roaming around your body? A quick search on the internet will tell you that there are about 50 different hormones in the body…so yeah, hormones are kind of a big deal.
After reading many articles on this topic, I found that the consensus seems to be that hormones may very well play a big role in chronic pain. So, ladies: it is NOT all in your head! Here are just a few examples of the articles out there:
I don’t know about you, but I LOVE my flip-flops! So it causes me a bit of anxiety when I hear people talking about about how bad they are for your feet! I’ve read many articles on why it’s considered a bad idea to wear flip-flops. After “researching” the reasons why, there do seem to be some legitimate concerns, however I do not agree with the blanket statement that “flip-flops are bad for your feet”.
The most legitimate concern, in my opinion, is the potential for an overuse injury. With the standard flip-flop, your toes are forced to grip the bottom of the footwear in a way that is not normal for your feet. And it has to do it more often than is desirable, which could lead to an overuse injury. BUT, this is a problem that can be alleviated by simply wearing a flip flop of a different design…one in which a strap comes over the top of the foot and is nearer to the front of the ankle. This way, the toes will not be forced into an unnatural, repetitive action. (http://www.naturalhealthmag.com/expert-advice/are-flip-flops-bad-your-feet)
The second concern which I felt had some merit, was that the arch of your foot would lack support. However, it seems to me that if you have weak arches, you are plenty aware that you might be better off with more supportive shoes, so you already KNOW that you wouldn’t want to wear flip-flops. AND if you do still want to wear flip-flops, there is such a huge variety of flip-flops nowadays that you won’t have any trouble finding flip-flops that have arch supports.
On the flip side of that argument (pun intended 
), there is plenty of controversy out there over whether arch supports are a good thing or a bad thing. I personally believe that going barefoot and wearing flat shoes (or nearly flat shoes) are the way to go. If you never wear arch supports, then your arches will be strong and won’t fall. If you start wearing arch supports, you’re letting the shoe do all the work for you, and your foot muscles become weaker and weaker and you become even more reliant on the arch support in order to keep you from having foot pain.
*Here’s the disclaimer you’ve been waiting for: If you currently suffer from flat feet, and want to build your foot strength, please do it gradually. And consult a doctor about these issues. I’m not a medical professional. I’m just a person with an opinion. (A bare-footer who has never felt the need for arch supports ).
There are other concerns that people have cited in their arguments against wearing flip flops, but it seems to me that these are all issues that common sense plays a part in:
To all of these “risks”, I would just recommend using common sense. I’m sure no one that I know of is ignorant to the risk we take when we participate in ANY activity while wearing flip-flops. And flip-flops are not the only culprit in the shoe world. So, just take the necessary precautions that you would take whenEVER you take part in these activities, regardless of the type of shoes you are wearing.
And don’t pick on my precious flip-flops !
After a lot of thought, I’ve decided to implement a sliding scale.
The bottom line is that I want to make it affordable for people to get the treatment they need. If you are like me at all, you probably would rather just not make any appointments than to have to discuss money, so I’m hoping this will help.
I will not be asking you about your financial circumstances. I will just post this chart in my office for you to refer to and you can use your own judgement about what you can afford and what is fair payment.
Please note: There will be a minimum payment required. It is on the bottom line of the chart. *The minimum price for the 80 minute Neck Treatment will be $50.*
I am implementing this on a trial basis. Please feel free to let me know how it’s working for you.
Nominate a Nurse!
I have a lot of admiration for nurses. A nurse can change your hospital experience from distressing to at least tolerable, and possibly even pleasant.
In honor of the amazing nurses in our area, I’d like to give away free massages to some of them. If you know of a deserving nurse, send an email to me at
junipertherapeuticmassage@gmail.com.
Please include a couple of sentences about your experience with them. I’ll be choosing one or two nurses to receive
a free 80 minute massage.
Please send the email by May 13th.
If the emails come after that, I’ll reserve them for another time (because I may do it again).
*Please keep in mind, for their convenience, where my office is located, and the hours that I am open:
My office is located in Baldwinsville (about a mile from the Jones Road exit of 690).
My general hours are Monday through Friday from 7:00 a.m. – 3:00 p.m.
During my time as a massage therapist, I have had many people sheepishly say to me, “I might fall asleep during the massage”, or with some embarrassment say to me, “I’m sorry if I was snoring”.
Although I have heard of the occasional therapist who is somehow offended by a sleeping client, I just want to give you my personal opinion. I personally take it as a great compliment that you feel so comfortable and relaxed with me that you can drift off to sleep. I think that it is a great honor to have my clients trust me enough to relax to that degree! Snoring during a massage lets me know that I am doing my job of helping you to relax. So, snore away!! It’s music to my ears 
!
While I am on the subject of possibly embarrassing situations, let me try to put your mind at ease about a few other things…
Shaving legs
I’m not just trying to be nice when I tell you that it’s okay that you didn’t shave your legs for this appointment…It REALLY is okay! IN FACT, it’s probably BETTER if you don’t shave, simply because stubble that has grown for a day or two is much sharper and actually can cut into my hands. Trust me, I am not offended by hairy legs.
Bodily noises
There are all sorts of sounds that the body makes when it is relaxing. Remember in Science class when your teacher talked about the “Fight or Flight” response? It is activated by your Sympathetic System. Well, your body also has a Parasympathetic System which triggers the “Rest and Digest” response. When you are getting a massage, this system is activated. A number of digestive functions are taking place, some of them more audible than others. So, if these noises occur when you are in a massage with me, and you feel embarrassed, you can do one of two things: Ignore it, and I will too. Or say “oops” and we will both laugh about it.
Other body reactions
Occasionally, your body may react to massage in other unexpected ways. Again, it’s all part of the relaxation response, and it is fine as long as there are no inappropriate behaviors accompanying the response. Ignore it, and I will too.
Dirty feet
If it really bothers you that your feet have accumulated some dirt or odor before you come in for a massage, I keep wipies and washcloths available in the room. Feel free to use them.
Above all, if you feel embarrassed by anything, please don’t just leave and never come back! Talk to me! You won’t be the first person to have felt worried about these things and I want to take that worry off your mind.
Happy Spring! (Be strong…it’s almost here!)
Time to start sending out hints to your kids and grandkids that what you’d LOVE for Mother’s Day or Father’s Day is a Gift Certificate for a massage
And to help you all celebrate…
All gift certificates (of $68 or more) purchased from now through Father’s Day, will have 15 minutes added to the certificate for free! *There is no limit on the number you may purchase to give as gifts to others. However, each person may only redeem 2 of these special gift certificates.
As an extra “Thank You” to my regulars, check your email.
*All you have to do is mention the offer when you buy the gift certificate.
*The free 15 minutes is not a stand alone service and must be added on to a massage of 60 minutes or more.
Feel free to pass it on! Thank you!
Be Well!
Joybelle Allen